Tuesday, October 12, 2010

Cell Phone Sexting

                Our generation should be convicted of sexually abusing technology.  The internet is cluttered with easily accessible pornography, forums are created where mythical creatures intimately interact with one another, and as if that were not enough we have even trended towards exploiting our cell phones. 
                Cellular devices are being used as a tool to facilitate casual encounters, random hook-ups, and even the exchange of naked pictures.  The question I would like to raise is, does the convenience of the text message improve or hinder one’s love life?  The potential embarrassment of an overly aggressive text/sext not only leaves the sender feeling foolish but also can permanently ruin future chances with the receiver.   Yet, given the consequences this practice still occurs.
 I couldn’t tell you whether the majority of inappropriate text messages are sent while the offender is completely sober or intoxicated, but my assumption is that it would be the later.  People like to place blame for their embarrassing text messages and poor decision making on alcohol because it, “impairs their judgment.”  However, we should be held accountable for our actions regardless of our level of sobriety.   Instead of recognizing the inappropriateness, we are taking full advantage of sending these explicit messages via cell phone.   One of the reasons why this practice is so easily adopted is because it does not require us to be present while the text message is being read by the receiver.  The potential awkwardness of the situation is nonexistent until the next face to face encounter with one another.  If this practice continues without holding people accountable then it will slowly be deemed acceptable.  My guess is that it is only a matter of time before the cell phone acts as the leading medium for sexual exploitation.
               

4 comments:

  1. I completely agree with this blog. Regardless of the state of the sender, they should be held acountable for whatever they send. This blog is especially relevant given the current news of Brett Favre and his sexting scandal.

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  2. I also agree with this post. More often I hear of people sending pictures through the phone to each other, and cases of kids getting sexts as young as 13 or 14 years old! The Brett Favre issue was very important given he played against the team that the woman he allegedly sexted was a cheerleader for. I think it is getting out of hand to use a phone as a means of sexual encounters.

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  3. This is an interesting subject because personally I have been on the receiving end of an awkward text as well as have sent one to someone. It definitely is the sender's fault no matter what state they are in. The thing why texting or (sexting) is so popular is because it leaves room for interpretation. Through a text one cannot tell your true emotion, but most important and worrisome of all, how does one know if that text message was really sent by the person it says its from?

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  4. I wouldn't say that this will necessarily be acceptable eventually. It will always be a taboo subject and a topic of controversy due to the explicit nature of the medium at hand. I don't think anyone will ever be texting a pimp and paying to send them a nudey pic.

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